Originally Published: January 11th, 2020 This is a powerhouse statement. My first thoughts are: if you’re accepting feeling unhappy in your relationship, then that is what you will get. In my early twenties, I was in a physically, mentally, emotionally abusive relationship. Why did I stay? Why did I accept it? At that time, I…
Tag: Boundaries
Reiki Principle For Today – I Will Not Be Angry
Originally Published: September 20th, 2019 I have a right to say no, even if it makes me feel uncomfortable. I can first validate the person’s request, “I understand why you want me to…”. Then state my preference not to do it, “…but, I’d prefer not to”. This way, I align with my values and assert…
Reiki Principle For Today – I Will Be Kind To All Living Things
Originally Published: May 1st, 2020 I feel powerless over my life when I am living aligned to someone else’s values. If I allow another person to determine how to live my life, I will constantly seek their approval and appreciation to know if I am “living life properly”. I am not honouring who I truly…
Living With Borderline Personality Disorder – Strong Opinions & Identity Crisis
Strong Opinions Lately, I’ve been finding the world hard work. There are so many strong opinions on so many issues, I feel like I am drowning in an ocean of them. This is wrong, opinion. This is right, opinion. Actually, this struggle with the world isn’t new for me. On August of 2016, I blogged…