Originally Published: August 4th, 2021 I once envied a marriage for the husband’s protective nature of his wife along with many lavish gifts and expensive lifestyle bestowed upon her and his family. It was later discovered he had an entirely hidden life of cheating on his wife. This man gambled with what he could not…
Category: 55 Rules for Love
55 Rules For Love – Rule #54 – Give And Receive Without Measure
Originally Published: August 1st, 2021 Mature Love This rule took some time to process. To give and receive without measure seems a lofty aspiration, only attained by mature, well-seasoned love. Perhaps, this mature love shows as a deep understanding of how Michael and I individually tend to our marriage, with past hurts, resentments and deeply…
55 Rules For Love – Rule #53 – Make Love, But Also F*ck (Regularly)
Originally Published: July 18th, 2021 Letting Go I can be prisoner to my thinking mind that has me caged into someone else’s imprinted rules for life, using their moral compass to guide my life. Then there comes a point when enough is enough. I evaluate the morals and values taught to me – to then…
55 Rules For Love – Rule #52 – Discover What Turns You Both On And Explore It
Originally Published: June 10th, 2021 Sex Is Fun! Over the years, Michael and I had lots of fun together as there is an entire world out there of ways to have fun with sex! Deepens Your Connection Sex isn’t something to be shamed or judged. It is as unique, fun, curious and erotic as we…
55 Rules For Love – Rule #51 – Don’t Cling To It, Know When To Let Go
Originally Published: June 20th, 2021 Sometimes love means letting go. What’s worse: the pain of staying in the wrong relationship or the pain of letting it go? Letting go of love, knowing when to say goodbye, is an incredibly courageous step in living an authentic life. I’ve been in relationships that have lasted much longer…
55 Rules For Love – Rule #50 – Don’t Sleep On A Fight
Originally Published: June 1st, 2021 What If? What if we sleep on a fight, then in the morning I wake up and Michael is dead? I would forever regret our last interaction with the man I love most in my world. Sometimes, when I’m deeply hurt or really angry when we are arguing, it takes…
55 Rules For Love – Rule #49 – Fluidity Is Good, Accept Change
Originally Published: May 22nd, 2021 Fluidity is a key element for successful transition through change. There are other elements such as planning and organization, however nothing in life ever runs smoothly. This life lesson is a truth. This is why fluidity is good. According to a quote by Albert Einstein, Michael and I’s intelligence can…
55 Rules For Love – Rule # 48 – Be Grateful
Originally Published: May 16th, 2021 I asked my husband Michael his thoughts on this rule. He said sometimes you need to pause and reflect on reasons to be grateful, because gratitude is the opposite of taking each other for granted. Gratitude is focusing on what is rather than what is missing. Gratitude brings me into…