55 Rules For Love – Rule #2 – Whatever You Accept, You Will Get

Originally published: January 11th, 2020 This is a powerhouse statement. My first thoughts are: if you’re accepting feeling unhappy in your relationship, then that is what you will get. In my early twenties, I was in a physically, mentally, emotionally abusive relationship. Why did I stay? Why did I accept it? At that time, I…

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55 Rules For Love – Rule #1 – When It Arrives, Cherish It

Originally published: January 10th, 2020 What Does Cherish Mean? Cambridge Dictionary says: To cherish means to hold someone or something dear, treating them with deep affection, care, and tenderness. It ofter goes beyond simple love, implying a conscious effort to protect, nurture, and value what you hold close to your heart. How can we cherish…

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Introduction: My Blog Series On “55 Rules For Love”

Originally Published January 9th, 2020 The Beginning When my husband and I first started our long-distant relationship, he sent me a list called the “55 Rules For Love”, reflecting his outlook on this emotion. These rules stayed with us. We use them as a reference for our marriage – for perspective. I’m not sure who…

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