Originally Published: December 22nd, 2024
2025
Am I a good judge of character?
Typically, no because my lenses are tinted with trauma.
But, overall with the help of Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), I walk a Middle Path where people are neither all good or all bad, they fall somewhere in-between; and the Trust Star teaches me there are types of trust located on a continuum.
Therefore, am I a good judge of character?
I’d say I am better than I was, but am still a work in progress.
S, 🌻
2024
I judge others very quickly into two categories – safe or unsafe.
The pendulum continually swings back and forth on any given day.
S, 🌻
As for me, I’m perhaps the worse judge of someone other’s character.
To me, people are what they do, not what they seem to be.
I totally get that! People are complex….