“God Placed the Best Things in Life on the Other Side of Fear“
That is what Will Smith says about skydiving. His video of overcoming the fear of jumping out of a perfectly good airplane basically describes my own tandem experience!
These are the Reasons I’ve Decided to Learn to Skydive:
- How excited my husband was that I participated in a sport he has loved for most of his life
- Overcoming fear – there was this process of coming out of shock, resulting from the overwhelming terror I felt as we exited the plane that transitioned to pure joy during freefall!
- Confidence. It takes a certain level of confidence to take the calculated risk of jumping out of a perfectly good airplane.
Dream It And It Can Happen
Michael has talked about driving our 5th wheel to a drop zone in Arizona, where we would spend a winter skydiving there.
This is where I would learn to skydive.
The idea of it – the dream of doing this – is very compelling for me. Fits me.
Where Do I Begin?
My first steps towards jumping out of perfectly good airplane are:
- Studying the sport of skydiving by reading manuals and books,
- Practice positioning to gain muscle memory and
- Hang out at the drop zone to realize that jumping out of a perfectly good plane is a calculated risk and as unscary as bowling!
Back To Fear
Overcoming fear is perhaps the most significant reason I want to learn to skydive. Fear – anxiety – worry – in many aspects of my life – have hindered me frozen – like deer in headlights.
Vulnerability – placing my life on the parachute on my back – is learning to trust.
What If I Don’t Follow Through With This Personal Goal?
I’ll cross that bridge if I come to it. As of this moment, I can feel the visceral fear in my chest – when I think about jumping out of a perfectly good airplane – but this fear is what I want to overcome.
Because, as Will Smith says, God placed the best things in life on the other side of fear.
S, 🪂

I have always wanted to skydive. It would be like facing my biggest fear. Which, unfortunately is heights. I recently tried one of the slingshots at a fair that was in town. Pretty fun!
However, I will have to skydive one of these days. It’s been on my bucket list for years.
I hope you take the jump, so to speak! 😊 I won’t be repeating the skydiving experience, as my fear of heights says once was enough, thank you very much! I hadn’t heard of the slingshot before, Googled it and immediately went “nope!” Good for you for braving that experience!
Yeah, that was really scary. I didn’t originally want to do it. It was a friend of mine who has wanted to go on it. He convinced me by saying he would stay sober for the next month. Only reason I decided to do it.
Was your friend able to stay sober for the month?
No, he didn’t. He was out drinking the very next day. Kind of disappointing. But, hey, it was worth a shot. He originally offered me $100 to ride it with him.
I already lost a few friends/family to alcohol. I don’t want to see him added to that list.
It’s so powerless, painful to watch an alcoholic/addict slowly kill themselves, in what is said in the rooms of 12-Step programs – on the instalment plan.
I’m sorry you’ve gone through such losses. I hope your friend finds his way to sobriety. 🙏🏻🌻