55 Rules For Love – Rule #9 – Do Not Punish

Originally Published: January 21st, 2020 To punish Michael means I’m holding a resentment, not letting go of a hurt and want to purposely hurt him return. To seek revenge. Hurt people, hurt people. Examples would be: We all make mistakes. Why would I want to punish, intentionally hurt Michael when he has remorse for hurting…

55 Rules For Love – Rule #5 – Don’t Say Words With The Intent To Hurt

Originally Published: January 15th, 2020 Hurt People Hurt People Hurt people hurt people. My husband Michael told me these simple and profound words a few years ago because when I was angry at him, I would lash out saying words to hurt that I would quickly regret. My transition over the years from lashing out…